How To Share Your Love Of Lingerie On Hub Pages (Hope's Evil Panty Comment Moderation Policy)
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A few of you may wonder why your comments have not been showing up lately. This document will hopefully clarify why this has been occurring. If your comments are being repeatedly moderated, it is because they are inappropriate for this venue. Don't take this as an insult, it's not, it is simply a matter of time and place, just as you wouldn't wear a PVC floral mini skirt to a Royal Ball, or a sheer body stocking and nothing else to a family funeral.
First of all, Hub Pages' own filter sometimes kicks in, in which case your comments are flagged as spam. This occasionally happens to comments which are not spam, though it is relatively rare.
It may help to explain what this venue is, and what this venue is not.
What This Place Is:
This is an open, but family friendly forum where we can discuss the issues and interests of men who wear women's lingerie and other things. We encourage mature discussion of the kind that actually helps men who wear lingerie by demonstrating to the many people who stumble over these hubs that men who wear lingerie are thoughtful, nice and interesting men.
What This Place Is Not:
It is not a sandbox for men who want to hook up, be humiliated or share physical descriptions of how lingerie makes them feel.
Reasons Your Comment Was Denied
So, if your comment has been denied, it is probably for one of the following three reasons:
Over sexual language: This isn't the forum for sharing your carnal thoughts about how you feel when you wear lingerie, or what it does to you when you wear it. There are a myriad of other places you can share these details. Hub Pages is not the venue to do so. Think of Hub Pages as being a large glass store front window which men who wear lingerie and panties have to the world. What do you think it says when several of the men in that window seem intent on humping every mannequin they see?
Inappropriate pictures: This is a family environment, so if your picture is a crotch shot, it is highly inappropriate. Whilst I defend your right to wear whatever you want, there is still such a thing as having class and decorum, and spamming your barely covered bits to the world shows neither.
Grammar and Spelling: I don't mind the odd typo or two, but if your comment is barely comprehensible, then I won't be approving it. Take the time to spell check and throw a few vowels and punctuation in there. It's not difficult, and it shows you off in a good light. Text language, is of course, a total no no.
It's Not Fair
I know it isn't popular to put standards like this in place, but I don't think they are unreasonable and I think anyone old enough to be commenting here is old enough to be able to A) have a sense of time and place and B) express himself in a lucid fashion.
Now, of course, you can disregard everything I have said here, break these rules, make your own hubs and spam filth all over them. I can tell you now that this place has a very tight knit community (who, on the whole, are not mad keen on men who wear lingerie, though they tolerate these hubs with equanimity) who will flag them, and have you and your hubs removed very quickly. And then all you will have done is supported the idea that men who wear panties are filthy perverts, and nailed another nail into the coffin of fashion equality.
So seriously, if you want to get dirty, why not join one of the many online communities that isn't trying to keep things family friendly. Here are two which have thriving communities of men who wear panties where you can say and do whatever you want.
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Me?! :P
Honestly though. Hope my comments are normally above board!
Darren :-)
I agree, and believe me, this wasn't aimed at you or indeed 99% of people who comment, most of you guys contribute invaluably. This is really just here for the 1%'ers who might be coming here for the first time and not be aware of what Hub Pages actually is. I know some people mistake the whole thing for being a male lingerie site.
BRAVO! I've been reading and enjoying your hubs for about a year now but have only recently begun to submit comments. (So far, no rejections. I must be dotting my i's and crossing my t's correctly.) I always read the comments section to see how others respond to your carefully prepared insight. I feel it is simply a matter of respect to you that anyone submitting a comment takes just a moment to proof their writings. Not only are you due this respect as a journalist, but you are a woman that appreciates men in lingerie and should be treasured by all that come here. Thank You for directing those with inappropriate intent to somewhere else.
Hey RD :) The grammar thing isn't as exacting as I may have made it sound, I'll allow comments that end with a preposition and sometimes I'll even begin a sentence with a conjunction. Because I a darn renegade. It really only applies to people who mashed their keyboard and threw in some numbers for reasons best known to themselves.
Thank you, and I also thank all men who comment. Those thoughtful comments are the essential ingredient which takes these hubs from being the mere ponderings of a woman and transforms them into reflections of reality and truth.
All comments should be respectable and I am glad that you edit them and keep them nice
regrettably i have had one or two that haven't come up but in hind sight it was probably best they didn't.
Yes, two of mine were not admitted. But they seemed completely in line with your guidelines, which by the way, I agree with. I just figured you'd heard my thoughts before a hundred times and were bored. :-)
Hm, I do not know celtichic, I don't typically moderate comments because I am bored and feeling bitchy though, they may have gotten trapped in a spam filter or something :D
Dear Hope Im very diappointed in you. Shame on you. Peace.
Peace? What a disgusting, liberal hippy sort of thing to say. Internet strangers being disappointed in me isn't something I bother myself overly much with. Imagine how mad I would go if I tried to please every single person who stumbled over my work. (With two million views and growing, that would be a lot of people to satisfy.)
(P.S To put this comment in context, Mr Sneako here believes that I, and everyone else who supports the idea of men wearing whatever they want needs counseling.)
Dearest Hope, My comment addresses your use of censorship to remove challenges to the abnormal behavior your writting celebrates. You write incredibly well you obviously have mastered the skill. My comment actually referred to men wearing panties, corsets, fishnets, bras, teddies, heels, make-up, lip stick, peddle pushers, nail polish, skirts, blouses, dresses, bobby socks, hair combs, barretts, nail decals, halter tops, bikinis, tights, eye shadow, oil of olay, cucumber facial mask, knee highs, trouser socks, rouge, perfume, ankle bracelets, rabbit ears and a fuzzy cotton tail, wigs, hair pieces, big hair, girdles, silk stockings, nylons, shalls, capes, babushkas, short shorts(who wears um?), knit tops, cute anything, tiarras, bonnets, night gowns, thongs, pumps and your Moms jewerly. You support a free-for-all, no boundries, anything goes. When the topic is men wearing any of the above I would wager to say its probably a very small percentage of men that would participate.(I'd bet the farm on it.)That would make it atypical or abnormal behavior.
I do enjoy reading what you write because its way out there, and some of your viewers are freaks. You know their goofey and you know that your niche. Lets face it, you want rednecks, biggots,homophobes and conservatives to take a hike. If you put it out there alittle harrasment should be expected.
You have a good following, most have escaped from the booby-hatch, and they really enjoy what you have to say. In a different time you would be censored. I understand you don't want lockeroom talk, ok. I appolgize for my grammer and my spelling but I lost spellcheck and don't know where it went.
I catch things and I shoot things and the guys I hang with would never show up in a corset. We would verbally abuse the offender then get them counseling. We would finish by taesing his wife. All of us would laugh till we cried.
Censorship is a very slippery slope use it with caution. I'll consider the source on the disgusting hippy comment but you calling me a liberal is fight'n words! Put'em up pixie! Violence.(bad Dad joke)
For the 100th time, this hub ISN'T ABOUT CENSORING PEOPLE WHO DISAGREE. That's not what the words written here mean. I don't know how many times I have explained this.
Can you read? You seem fairly intelligent, so I don't understand how you have willfully and continually misinterpreted this entire article. Again, in caps, for the slow class.
I DON'T CENSOR THOSE WHO DISAGREE.
I CENSOR THOSE WHO USE FOUL AND / OR GRAPHIC LANGUAGE.
Comprende, yet?
LOL, I don't have anything against conservatives, I lean that way myself on some issues (you see, not everything is black and white, conservative or hippy liberal.) In fact, you could say, that saying people can wear whatever they want is conservative in that it puts freedom back in the hands of people, rather than whatever body decides what is and isn't right.
You'd be surprised as to who wears lingerie, guy, there's at least one ex marine who comments here occasionally, and a whole lot of military guys. Exactly the sort of guys you think would never do it.
As to the tasering the wives of men who wear lingerie... that's pure class, that is. Rock on with that.
Thanks Hope! I get it I'm just slow. Its just weird to me thats all. Hey but I always read your Hubs they're a hoot! May the bird of happiness fly up your nose. Later Lawdy Mama!
I live to put a smile on your face, Sneako
Well thanks! You're definitly a woman who knows how to please a man! Lol! And I like you too! Wink-wink!
Hi Hope,
You are absoulty awsome. I have searched the web forever to find a site that addressed the men wearing lingerie subject.You have given us an incredible resource and are someone who really understands what we are all about. There is no way to thank you sufficiently. I have gotten more help and pleasure in the last three days than I've found in over two years of searching. Thanks again. quarsarte
Hope Alexander Hub Author 2 years ago
*Ahem* Cantsay, you did that on purpose, didn't you ;)